- The father, who has been absent from his daughter’s life since birth, began to search for her after having disturbing dreams about her
- Her mother informed her about their daughter’s death in an unusual way, and it caused mixed feelings
- The story sparked a heated debate online, with some supporting the mother’s decision and others criticizing her
A grieving woman left the father of her child devastated and distraught after breaking the news of their daughter’s mysterious death.
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The man, who has been absent from his daughter’s life since her birth, recently reached out to her mother for the first time asking about the little girl.
He explained that he had been having disturbing dreams and wanted to know if he was okay.
How did the man find out about his daughter’s death?
One of her friends, who shared the story online, said the little girl was buried in December, and her father had no knowledge of her death.
When he received the sad news, the man visited his ex-girlfriend’s house with her family to discuss the issue and pay respects at his daughter’s grave.
The incident sparked mixed reactions online, with many people sharing their views. Some supported the woman’s decision not to involve her, while others criticized her, saying that even if the father did not take responsibility, he had the right to know about the death and burial of his child.
Opinions of netizens
Netizens shared various opinions, from sympathy for the mother to condemning the absence of the father, reflecting on the responsibility, sadness, and responsibilities of a parent.
Lefty: “If the father really abandoned the child, then the mother was already raising him alone. When the child died, he handled the funeral the same way he handled life: without him. You cannot disappear when the child needs you and then suddenly expect the father’s privileges in death. His absence made him a stranger to the role. The real father may leave the woman’s house, but he ends the life of a broken child; fatherhood.”
Esther Amito: “That woman didn’t owe any explanation. She is a hurt but brave woman. She moved forward beautifully. I can only imagine the man’s face when he realized.”

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Bethuel Mathebula: “This is very sad. A child deserves the love and support of both parents alive. Sometimes people realize the gravity of their absence when it is already too late. May the little soul rest in peace, and may both parents find healing.”
Phindi: “I know the pain of raising a child alone… I hate him… but I would still let him know… no one of his Nonkulunkulu will deal with him, not me.”
MrHandsome: “That’s petty! Fighting your battle with the father of your child using the child. What you don’t realize is that some things bring bad luck to yourself, because he always has to have a break with his family and you’ve denied him that… like my son, we’d dig him.”
Why did the Mombasa woman regret looking for the father of the child
In other news, TUKO.co.ke reported that a woman in Mombasa received a heartbreaking response from the father of her child.
He decided to contact her two years after their child was born, and was rejected by her and the child.
However, he told her that the child might not be his, leaving the woman sad and regretting why she contacted him.
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