- Kenyan women shared mixed views on dating police officers, highlighting issues of trauma and trust
- Experiences range from unfaithfulness and stinginess to violence and emotional turmoil in relationships
- Some women vowed not to date police officers, citing negative experiences and seeking better connections
- A Kenyan woman shared her experience of dating a police officer via TUKO.co.ke, recounting how the unfaithful partner turned her into a burden of torture
Are there careers you’ve quietly retired from your dating life? From teachers, lawyers, doctors, and police officers, many people vow not to associate with people from certain professions.
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Whether it’s long hours, strict routines, or personality stereotypes, job titles can quietly shape romantic decisions.
Announcer of TikTok shared a post asking women to date police officers, and the response was surprising.
What is it like to be in a relationship with a police officer?
Several women filled the post with mixed reactions, opening up about dating police officers. A few shared their positive experiences with men in uniform, while most did not have such positive experiences.
Many Kenyan women shared their worst dating experiences with police officers, with many claiming that they were dishonest, heartbroken, short-tempered, and greedy.
Here are some of their views on dating police officers:
Miriam Aseyo said:
“No matter how desperate you are for a relationship, never date a police officer.
Litsoaneloleemats said:
“Police and nurses deserve each other.”
Naxie said:
“Stay far away from those guys 🤣😩😭. They will teach you why a dog sleeps outside.”
Anita Nyaboke:
“😂🤣😂😂They ask for money, airtime, petrol, lunch, and have anger issues 😂🤣.”
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“Let me strongly advise you 🥷stay away from nurses, police, ems n teaches😂if you don’t wanna be posted with a caption of “gone to soon🕊️.”
Cecilia Wairimu:
“💔 “Babe, open your phone” at gunpoint.😅😅.”
Jay Nekesa:
“Always broke and unfaithful. If you want to lose weight faster, try dating a policeman.”
Milka Apondi:
“My sister is an officer too, she advised me not to fall for the police officer.”
Alice Cheptoo:
“Run, ladies. Those men are stingy, controlling, and have anger issues.”
Rhoda Atoti:
“Fear those men is poison.”
Leah Leah:
“Very stingy and always broke. You will cry until you release bubbles.”
Ciku Wambui:
“Very promiscuous. You will meet more than 5 co-wives on the day of his funeral.”
Lucy Njeri:
“Those guys are ever broke try one you will see.”
Doreen Chebet:
“Date them, you better know that every hour you fail, he will remind you that he is a soldier.”
Do police officers know about romance?
Stella Akinyi, a 33-year-old marketing graduate shared her experience of dating a police officer, describing it as the worst moment of her life.
The single mother of two told TUKO.co.ke how the handsome prince she met on TikTok turned her into a punching bag. She revealed that after a week of meeting, they moved in together and she got pregnant almost immediately.
“The first year was good. He treated me like a queen. We had our second child in the second year and that’s when the problems started. He would come home late, stop paying the bills and while I was working, I did everything. Sometimes he wouldn’t sleep at home and whenever I asked him why the sudden change in behavior, he would beat me,” she said.
The mother of two revealed how her husband was infecting her with sexually transmitted diseases, and would attack her every time she raised him.
In the third year, Akinyi found the courage to leave her marriage after discovering that her husband had three other women, each with two children as his own.
“One of the “partners” befriended me on TikTok and created a WhatsApp group and added two others. We shared our painful stories and decided to confront him before I left the marriage,” he said.
The 33-year-old single mother revealed that she is taking time to heal from her past relationship, vowing never to date a police officer.
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What kind of people are most police officers?
In a related story, women flooded TikTok with their experiences dating police officers. Some gave positive comments, while others expressed their worst opinions about dating men in uniform, vowing never to do it again.
Some who were lucky enough to meet the handsome men in uniform talked about the things they did for them, including paying their college fees.
Others, who did not have a good experience with police officers, claimed that they are negligent and greedy.
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