- Nancy Ngari opened up about her troubled relationship with her baby’s father, who had known each other since childhood
- They started dating when she was a first -year student and eventually became pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy, marking the beginning of her problems
- Nancy told TUKO.co.ke that she returned to the man after 11 years of separation, but things got worse
A woman from Meru County has told her sad story of pain and remorse in marriage.
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In an exclusive interview with TUKO.co.ke, Nancy Ngari revealed that she loved Joshua (not her real name), a childhood friend who grew up together in the village.
He explained that they were regular friends until he joined the University of Agriculture and Technology of Jomo Kenyatta (JKUAT) to continue his advanced studies.
“Our first time to be around as lovers was when we were adults – he was working with me I was the first year JKUAT. Since he knew my mother was fierce, he didn’t rush things,” He narrated.
However, before she had completed four years in college, Nancy became pregnant – and that was where her problems began.
He explained that, in fear of returning home, he asked Joshua to help him continue his studies as they now had a child, but he refused, allegedly following his parents’ advice.
“They told him not to pay his wife’s fees because he would come to leave her later. He said.
Nancy Ngari was divorced for the first time with her son’s father
Tired and discouraged, Nancy decided to return home and stop her studies, ready to face her fierce mother in Meru.
To Luck Beautiful, her mother warmly welcomed her and agreed to raise her granddaughter so that Nancy could return to school and adjust her life.
“I wonder how I am not embarrassed to go out there or to correct my mistakes as Mom wanted. He remembered.
However, in many of the phones he made, some women were responding and claimed that they were Joshua’s lovers – some of them even ridiculed him.
The situation hurt Nancy, and she vowed to go back to school and build a better life for her and her son.
“Finally, I went back to school, finished studies, and even got a job. I felt financially improved, and life was good,” He said.
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Why did the Meru woman return to her son’s father
In 2020, Nancy lost work and found herself struggling to help her son and mother.
He sought out Joshua again, hoping that he would help him finance your son’s education and basic needs.
“I needed help, I didn’t have a job, food or income. He told me to go back to Nairobi and even paid for me.”She narrated.
Nancy said that he hoped Joshua had changed and learned from previous mistakes. He gave him another chance, believing it was a new beginning.
However, their return turned into the essence of sadness again. Joshua became worse than before.
He abandoned him and his son, began to destroy his development efforts, avoided financial responsibilities, plunged into alcohol, and had open relationships with other women.
“My son even asked me why we returned to live with his father because he saw how he had done us wrong,” He said with tears.
Nancy added that although her mother -in -law was generous and helped raise the baby, she never held her son.
“She was a mother. She knew her mother would never rebuke her. He participated.
Finally, tired mentally and emotionally, Nancy decided to leave completely.
“I told her mother I’m tired, and she replied that I should not complain as long as she pays taxes and bought food. Then I left,” He said.
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Woman regrets leaving a lonely marriage
In other news, TUKO.co.ke reported about a woman who said she regretted leaving her 18 -year -old marriage.
The mother of two said she left her husband because she was very busy with work and did not have enough time for her.
However, shortly after the divorce, she realized that her friends had misrepresented her, and her husband’s business continued to thrive.
Unfortunately, her husband refused to bring her back and later issued a divorce documents.
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