Kenyan comedian and media personality Sande Bush Oyolo, popularly known as Dr Ofweneke, has sounded a warning to all the men dating or married to women in the corporate space.
Speaking on the night of Saturday, June 7, 2025, during an interview with one of the local TV stations, Ofweneke advised men married to women in the corporate world to be very careful, hinting at the potential for extracurricular entanglements.
“I am not an insecure man; I am very confident of who I am. That is why whenever I get a woman and she feels like she wants to leave, whether you want to leave or you just want to be with another man, you leave because you have not taken any part of me. But at times it is very dangerous, and men who should be most worried are the men who are dating or are married to women in the corporate space,” Ofweneke warned.
Ofweneke on team-building
He pointed out that end-of-year parties and team building are the events where most things happen.
According to him, men should be wary when their women tell them that they are travelling outside town to attend a team-building activity.
Ofweneke’s sentiments were echoed by Pastor Sue Munene, who warned that the activities that happen in team-building events are things that should be done by couples and not just work colleagues.
“Hiyo mambo ya office team building ndiyo kila kitu hufanyika; we need to draw a line,” Pastor Sue said.
Ofweneke on marriage
Ofweneke’s remarks come barely two days after he sparked a conversation about self-care in marriage, questioning why some women tend to neglect their personal grooming and appearance after tying the knot.
Speaking during his radio show on Thursday night, June 5, 2025, Ofweneke highlighted a shift in personal grooming among some women after marriage.
He stated that during courtship, many women invest time in their appearance, styling their hair, maintaining manicured nails, and wearing pleasant fragrances.
However, post-marriage, he noted a decline in these efforts, with some adopting a more relaxed approach to their appearance.
“Wewe tunakutana siku za kwanza. Ulikuwa unaka mrembo nywele umeweka vizuri; you are looking good; you are smelling nice; umejiweka makucha; you are looking amazing. Lakini ukishaingia kwa ndoa, unaanza kunuka hoho na kitunguu, unavaa t-shirt ya Wantam,” he questioned.
Loosely translates as “When we first met, you looked beautiful, your hair was well done, you were looking good, you smelt nice, and you had your nails done; you were looking amazing. But after getting married, you started smelling like capsicum and garlic, and you wear a Wantam t-shirt.”
further emphasised that marriage should not be a comfort zone where personal upkeep is abandoned. Instead, he believes that both partners should continue to make efforts to maintain their appearance and the spark in the relationship.
